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August 31st, 2009, 02:59 PM
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| | Personal messages begging for help More than once in the last couple of days I've been contacted directly on my personal mailbox by users trying to continue a thread that I've replied to insisting that I give them individual attention. I've been responding with "Nope, sorry" or some such, suggesting they keep the conversation in the main forum.
I wonder whether it's worth putting something in the Forum Rules pointing out that it's rude to ask someone personally for help on a particular problem (or set of 40 or so problems, or whatever). I tend to ignore further ever more frantic replies after my initial demurral, but I'm afraid this may cause the disappointed querent to recoil from this site with a negative view of it.
Suggestions?
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August 31st, 2009, 03:05 PM
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Originally Posted by Matt Westwood More than once in the last couple of days I've been contacted directly on my personal mailbox by users trying to continue a thread that I've replied to insisting that I give them individual attention. I've been responding with "Nope, sorry" or some such, suggesting they keep the conversation in the main forum.
I wonder whether it's worth putting something in the Forum Rules pointing out that it's rude to ask someone personally for help on a particular problem (or set of 40 or so problems, or whatever). I tend to ignore further ever more frantic replies after my initial demurral, but I'm afraid this may cause the disappointed querent to recoil from this site with a negative view of it.
Suggestions? | The usual recomendation is you delete such posts without replying (and possibly report them so we can give the culprit an infraction for begging).
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August 31st, 2009, 08:53 PM
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Originally Posted by Matt Westwood More than once in the last couple of days I've been contacted directly on my personal mailbox by users trying to continue a thread that I've replied to insisting that I give them individual attention. I've been responding with "Nope, sorry" or some such, suggesting they keep the conversation in the main forum.
I wonder whether it's worth putting something in the Forum Rules pointing out that it's rude to ask someone personally for help on a particular problem (or set of 40 or so problems, or whatever). I tend to ignore further ever more frantic replies after my initial demurral, but I'm afraid this may cause the disappointed querent to recoil from this site with a negative view of it.
Suggestions? | If you forward any such pms to me I will issue an Infraction to the user.
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August 31st, 2009, 10:34 PM
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| | Okay - I won't do that in this case, but in future I will. Thx.
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